Ep. 4 - Talking with Shelly O’Donovan

Episode 4 • October 06, 2022 • 00:41:46
Ep. 4 - Talking with Shelly O’Donovan
Selling the Dream By Ken Jordan
Ep. 4 - Talking with Shelly O’Donovan

Oct 06 2022 | 00:41:46

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Show Notes

Introduction:

We have just three rules for our guests to follow when joining us on “Selling the Dream”: 

  1. You must tell the truth
  2. You must be sincere
  3. Don’t take yourself too seriously

Today we’re talking with Shelly O’Donovan, Founder and CEO of Authentic Influence Group, based in the Greater Philadelphia area.  Shelly teaches people how to bridge the gap between verbal and nonverbal communication. She is passionate about helping every single person discover their inner superpower through understanding the fascinating science of body language and interpersonal skills. Shelly is certified through the Science of People, a human behavior lab in Portland, Oregon.

Join us as we ask Shelly how we can apply her methods to the real estate sales arena, and even give her a test to see if she can detect when Joe is lying.  Her insights are truly like having a superpower!  But do we really want to know what we might find out?  Join us for a fascinating look into observation, listening, body language, and how to approach different personality types when prospecting with clients.

Your co-hosts for the Selling the Dream podcast are William (Ken) Jordan - Vice President of Lending at Freedom Mortgage, and Joseph (Joe) W. Iredell,  President of Sure Sites Inc.  In each episode, we bring you insights, tips, tricks, and strategies for improving your sales, acquiring and retaining customers, and growing your business.

Talking Points:

00:00-00:18 - Podcast Introduction

00:50 - What’s new with Ken and Joe - Toxic positivity, dry snitching, sports talk, and draft picks

07:47 - Welcome and intro, Shelly O’Donovan

08:35 - What are some major areas salespeople need to focus on when dealing with clients?

09:28 - The two schools of thought in sales approaches– negotiation or enrollment strategies

10:18 - Where does Shelly fall in these two areas?

18:07 - Is Shelly a human lie detector?

21:37 - It can be a burden to know when people are lying to you

24:41 - Shelly attempts detecting Joe’s lie

27:52 - The big 5 types of personalities recognized globally, the OCEAN acronym

31:30 - Can people shift from their base personality types?

39:24 - Where can people find you and who can benefit from learning your methods?

40:23 - Watch for Shelly and Ken appearing on “Money Matters TV” in Philly!

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